Would you consider it worth staying iif the person is vehemently against getting therapy and thinks that you want him/her to be sick? I'm trying to be strong because I love her (we're both adults who've been dating a year and a half), but I've been crying a lot over it recently.
I think I'm breaking up either way, but I'd like someone else's insight.
I do realize this may seem like a a question with an obvious answer.
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That's a really tough situation, and (sorry) there is no obvious answer. It seriously depends on whether You are strong enough, and in love enough, to deal with it. No offense meant whatsoever - but you sound a little codependent on her yourself? Maybe you could talk her into some joint counseling to start with and see if she might move forward from there with some personal counseling for herself? I'm guessing you would not have bothered asking the question if you were already intent on taking off down the road. Be careful, and do whatever you can to get BOTH of you help if you really love and want to be with her. Wish you the best.0