Its doing my head in, she talks about her to me and I don't no how to react so I just smile and nod
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You need to find out why she is doing this
a. she thinks information about his past girlfriends are like helps you with your present relationship.
b. she is manipulative, she is setting up a benchmark for you to surpass, i.e. you better be better than all of them put together
c. an old fox testing you out, to see if you become jeolous, uncomfortable. This kind is playing mind games. Just laugh at their shallowness.
In all the above, this woman doesn't respect his son's privacy. The kind who likes to whisper behind people's back. NOT a good sign. Best thing to do is, FEEL the woman. Observe her behaviors. Ask her questions, like "Why are you doing this?" Say things like, "Don't worry. I am the straight forward kind. If I want to know, I would ask." Let her know you don't play her games.
Trust your gut feelings, regarding both the son and mom.0