I dont really know what to make of all this, but I hope one of you girls can help me.
My ex dumped me a year ago. We really did have a wonderfull relationship. Never any fight, lots of love and affection. She suddenly broke up because her feelings had changed (completely blindsided, she litterally changed her attitude towards me from one day to the next)
Anyways, the past 8 months or so has been without any contact at all. I removed her from all social medias. But I know she still follows my Instagram.
Since I just landed a new job, I announced it on Instagram and on Facebook.
She texted me out of the blue "Hey saw you got a new job (instagram), congratulations!"
We texted back and fourth for a few days, It went very well. She even used a lot of smileys/emoties. (She didn't want to used the right after our breakup because it could "give me the wrong idea")
She also send me a new friend request on Facebook...
We have been texting for about 3 weeks now. Not every day, but just every now and then.
Conversations is always started by her, but it isn't that often anymore. And always ended by me (I stop replying when there is nothing to reply to)
She is overall very possitive, and has asked me to drop by for coffee next time I am in the neighborhood.
Overall I am getting the feeling that she wants to rekindle things? Based on her social profiles, I know she and her rebound guy broke it of 2 weeks before she first made contact with me.
But today I see on social profile that she is going to get a visit from "someone very sweet"... 5 days ago she also "spend the night with a hottie"...
Is she dating? And what the he** did she want with me?
Could she just be talking about one of her girlfriends?
OMG please assist...
The "spend the night with a sweety" part. Ofcause it is loosly translated from my own language. In my language she could be talking about a guy or a girl. It could mean both, but I never actually heard any girl use words like that about a guy they date. Only when they talk about their girlfriends or a baby. That is why I did not pay much attention to it back then.