I am on my 15th day of 30 days no contact. Its killing me. I just want to contact him cause I have no clue how he feels. How to hold on? I really dont want to break it.
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That's great. As painful as it's been for you, how about you try this. One day at a time. Go one day without contacting him, and when you wake up the next day, all you have to worry about is going one day with no contact. You start over each new day and only worry about getting through the next 24 hrs.
Soon, you'll stop yourself and think "Wow, I forgot to reset my vow of no contact for a day" because you will begin the process of really moving on, where you'll care less about contacting him to the point the daily exercise won't even be necessary.
Keep up the good work. Moving on is hard, and trying to reconcile something that probably is best left in the past sounds like the easiest path, but that ends up making the process of getting over him that much harder.
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