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There is, most likely, an amount of interest, but it doesn't make the fact that the guy is being a user any more forgivable. If this is happening to you then forget about him now, even if he does put you on the "front burner" for a while he'll find some one else soon enough and you'll be back to substitute again.
The only interest they have is in themselves and the need to have someone on the hook until something better comes along. Never accept being on the back burner. If you want to get treated right and feel really good about yourself, ditch any guy that treats you like this and wait for the guy who really cannot get enough of you.
no, they just keep them there because they are good enough to date/acceptable/decent but they aren't really interested in them. basically guys just see girls like that as something to do but they can take her or leave her. when a guy is interested in a girl he wouldn't put her on the "back burner" he would put her 1st
I think the real question is are you sure you want to be someone's backup? All it means is if there's no one better, then he'll turn to you. But the second he finds someone better, he'll throw you away without a second thought.
Plan B doesn't always indicate interest, it indicates safety.
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