I have been dating this guy for 6 months & everything has been great. Last night we talked on the phone & he wanted me to get some info for him (not related to the situation.) Anyway I get off the phone with him cause his cousins were coming over. I called him back like 15 min later to tell him the info I found out & he never answered. Me calling right back is not like me & I knew his cousins were over so normally I wouldn't, but I wanted to give him the info real quick. Normally I wouldn't care cause I hate talking on the phone plus I knew his cousins were there, but it just seemed shady to me cause he always answers his phone for me or calls right back and he knew I was looking into something for him. Now I am wondering did the cousins bring someone over there and that is why he didn't answer. Plus he seemed to be in a rush to get off the phone with me before they came. The next day he calls but doesn't mention anything about not answering his phone. I would expect something like "sorry I missed your call" or what not. I don't know if I should say something to him or not. I am not one of those girls who needs phone calls, nagging, a lot of attention. I do my thing & he does his etc. but my gut is just in a knot & something seems shady. The way he acted was just out of his norm. We finally just met each others kids for the first time that night cause we are taking things slow cause we both been hurt in prior relationships, but what he did is kinda setting me back a little. Idk. Am I overreacting? Should I let it go or bring it to his attention. I just don't to be that nagging girlfriend. Any advice would be nice. Thanks in advance.
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He had company and maybe they were caught up and he was away from the phone. I can understand why you're frustrated but I do think you are overreacting here. You've said he normally calls right back or always answers his phone, that is better than a lot of guys. On the flipside, if your gut is telling you something, listen to it. Do not allow your frustration to fester and make too much out of nothing and ruin a good thing. Regain a cool head first, then approach him about how you feel about not being called back if it is really that important to you and that you feel something may have changed.0