So my sister just got married just iver two months ago. They have been together for four years. Just before the wedding, my sister discovered her soon to be husband was sexting her bridesmaid, and then also realized they had been spending a lot of time together alone at her house, even though he is not as close with her. He confessed he had been sexting but never had sex, the brides maid said the same and apologized, they are still friends for some stupid reason. My sister was angered, telling her cousin who was another bridesmaid. Our cousin told her not to marry him, but she didn't listen to her. Our cousin dropped out of the wedding and she didn't even attend it. Everyone was furious, except me. I knew our cousinmeant good. A month later, my sister discovers he was feeling other womens thighs around HER and being very touchy and flirty, so she said she wanted to leave. Her apologized and took her out of town to an awesome amusment park. Then a month later she discovers he was doing this stuff again and even found out more information that he was actually cheating and doing worse things so he kicked her out, then asked her to come back one day later and promised he would stop. Less than aweek later, she discovers more texts on his phone with hookers, and she learned that he paid hookers $180 that week to sexually please him. This was not even a week after. She went and asked him about it infront of his family, who were disapointed in him. She left on her own and is now talking to other guys as a way of coping with it. She keeps calling him her ex husband and canceled their couples bank account.
Do you believe they are done forever? Will they need to divorce? Why do you think he cheated so many times, even days after he apologized for what he had done? He said since she always gets attention from other guys this was his way of getting attention. Do you think that is true? I think thats a pretty sad excuse. It is called, get attention from one another dont ruin a relationship by goig around with other people. They both are attention seekers and immature and it is terrible.
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She should absolutley divorce him, he broke her trust multiple times, it won't change obviously. I don't know why he would do that but it was a scummy thing to do. However she should not be contacting other guys. Not until the divorce is finalized since it could be used against her, and its not really right to use those guys that way. So yeah tell her to reign it in until after the divorce that way she can't get screwed in the process.0