When we were breaking up, I told him to come get his things on the porch because I placed them outside. We'd had a blow up because I'd gotten upset that he (once again) "lost track of time" and blew me off. I told him I wanted space from him because he was stressing me out, his response? Nothing.
The next day was my housewarming party, and he didn't bother to say anything or come by. Yet when I asked him the next morning if we are broken up or is he trying to work things out, he said "breakup or not i still want to be friends and be there for you when you need it. let's go to this party i invited you to." and i was like, no, if you wanted all of that, you should've just came last night and told him it's over, come get his things.
then after talking, he said he needed space to think and he would give me an answer in person. 5 days later... I had to call him and be like SO WHATS GOING ON... and he said he "missed me" but he hadn't changed his mind. mind you, this was the day that we were supposed to go to a concert that I bought expensive tickets for with my family. but he couldn't even tell me sooner because he was "scared". i was livid and told him, that after two weeks of saying that he "loves" me, he doesn't want to try anymore.
i felt so sorry for him, but i wanted to be absolved for him so i said no hard feelings, he says you deserved better than that breakup and i wasn't confident about it, i didn't think you wanted to hear from meflash forward to now, i find his expensive items in my house that i missed, i try to coordinate a day and time with his best friend so he can retrieve his stuff. of course the friend is a flake and can't be reached. then one night of heavy drinking (trying to get over him) i texted him, and of course he rejected me
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I feel you my ex was awful too. I met him on a trip and he lived like 5 hours away and we skyped and talked every day and he talked about raising a family with me and how i was the only one for him. We finally got it worked out and at the end of June I was supposed to go stay with him for a few days. A week before I was supposed to go he dumped me saying he didn't want to make things more difficult. For the next week he still talked to me everyday, led me on and then would shoot me down. We were talking in french once and he said "you are loved" and i said "i love you" and he just said thanks. He knew I had been rejected before and that guys just disappear from my life but then one day he stopped talking to me all together. Later I saw he already had a new girl. He started dating her the week I was supposed to be with him. He did everything he promised not to do and I was so heartbroken. Men are pigs. I hate my ex too0