Most Helpful Guy
Forever plus two years.
Most Helpful Girl
I always say I want to be friends, but i never mean it. Seems friendship is just a way to hang on, and I see more people here wasting time obsessing over whether the person wants them back, the fact that the ex isn't very close to them, or trying to find hidden meanings behind everything the ex says or does. Staying "friends" is an anchor that keeps one or the other ex-partner from moving on.
I'd let it roll until (if) he initiates contact about the friendship.