Most Helpful Guy
Quickly and respectfully.
Most Helpful Girl
well, it is hard, so i get u.
the way i did it was just think of both our happiness. at the time i knew i had to move on, but i also knew i would be causing someone a lot of harm. i think the key is to be honest. say how u feel, and also include how hard it is for you. explain how much you mean to him.
if u really respect him, you'll leave sooner because you dont want to mislead him. if he is a kind man he'll appreciate your honesty even if it hurts. wish him all the luck in the world and just let him know youd still love to be on good terms.