Ok so my ex and I broke up in March less than a week after my birthday (he need me to take care of him after his emergency appendectomy). He had stopped having sex with me for the most part in November and I was lucky to get it twice a month if that. He would tell me that I should just get a side piece to fulfill my sexual needs because he just lost his libido. In reality he was fucking someone else on the side while I paid his bills and gave him a place to live. I found out that he got her pregnant and that's why he broke up with me because that planned on keeping it but had a miscarriage in April. I'm really confused by all of it and don't feel like I can talk to my new man about it a lot because they were friends for a long time. I'm really happy that I'm not with him anymore and everything but he also lied to my face multiple times even after the break up about how he never cheated. any thoughts or advice on how to get over this? I just really needed someone to listen
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You just neee time to get over it, what he did was of a pure asshole, so just spend time with your new boyfriend and enjoy it, try doing as much stuff as you can to keep your mind entertained. And I know all of that was negative, but try to find the bright side of it, like you would have never been with your new and better boyfriend for example.
It just takes time and having someone that cares for you at your side helps a lot too.0