I really love this girl but things are just getting to hard. We are supposed to be getting married soon and we are getting closer to the date, problem is she says she is so excited but won't put the effort into the planing. I always have to ask her about things she told me she would take care of because she says the will be but I never hear about it again unless I repeatedly ask her. Also she finally filled for divorce after being separated for almost 2 years in June and that still isn't done like she said it would be and when I ask why she gets mad at me. It just seems like I'm doing everything on my end and she's dropping the ball on hers. She says everything is fine but her actions say other wise.
Most Helpful Girl
Hopefully that divorce is finalized b4 your wedding... this is all I can say. At this point things aren't really looking promising0
Most Helpful Guy
duuuude, this is like red flag central. How can you be trying to get married with a woman who's still married even if she is separated. Has she even had time to process what she's going through or is divorce just something she does? Seems like a bad idea to rush into marriage with a woman like that in my opinion.0