I really hate playing games and don't want to but I don't know if this is the best way to get him to stop? What should I do?
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Let's say you get him back. Then what happens? Is it all just going to settle down and be awesome forever and ever and ever? Probably not. You'll probably just switch to making sure you keep him or switch over to convincing him to treat you better or just get fed up with all his wishy washiness and break up with him. You could just release a lot of this pain by just remembering that he's human. Just like you. He's got his own desires and dreams fantasies and fears. He makes a ton of mistakes and honestly no matter how hard you try you'll never be able to get him to do what you want. Instead you could just try loving him. Not in a I'm gonna do a bunch of nice stuff for you kind of way but in a I accept you and your choices kinda way. Just be you and be happy and learn to enjoy the moments you have with him. Whether it ends up being just two days more or two years or twenty. I can't promise you he'll come running back to you but I can promise you you'll enjoy whatever it is you have with this guy a whole lot more if you'll just let go of your expectations and focus on appreciating each moment in the moment.0
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