he cheated on me he was abusive we broke up February this year and he's trying to make efforts to get back into my life he has nowhere to go he saying that he's okay with not having sex with me and that he's just trying to get on his feet to get his own apartment but what I want to know is why would he want to live with me
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Abuse comes from a lack of empathy and an insecure need to control and dominate someone... and since he doesn't care about you (ignore what he says and pay attention to what he does) then of course he's going to want to live with you... because he can walk all over you, and it's free. It's win/win.
Obviously do NOT allow him around or back in your life. Unless you're kinda into abuse and such.