Me and this guy dated for a little over a month and then he broke up with me. He said we were too different and he didn't like that. He also said he liked it better single. He said he had a great time with me but he wanted to go in different directions. We talked for a long time before we began dating. Anyways we would talk on the phone every single night for at least 2 hours. He would always text me in the morning, while He was on his break at work. I would text him right before I had to go into work. We would hangout like only once a week because our work schedules and all but he should miss me right? I miss him like crazy. I haven't texted him since he broke up with me. I really did love him. When he broke up with me I didn't beg him to stay because im not begging anyone to stay in my life. I feel empty and alone without him. I think about him all the time. Tomorrow will be a week since he broke up with me. I'm just so depressed and angry. I've done things in the past 2 days that I would never even thing of doing if I were in my right mind. We're still friends on snap chat. I never used snapchat when we were dating. But here recently I started using it to snap friends. Last night I was hanging out with my friend and her little sister had 2 guys over. My friend had the idea of getting me to take a picture with one of the boys and as the caption put "he's so cute" and she had me put it on my story. Within minutes my ex saw it. At first I was glad he seen it. But now I regret it. I miss him so much and I really want him back. I don't know how to get him back though. He probably hates me now. What could I put on my snap chat story to fix this? Maybe a selfie that says "single" I don't know what to do. I just wonder if he misses me or thinks about me that often.
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I really can't say if he misses you as he seems pretty sure of his decision and seems firm and unapologetic about you two. Since he initiated the breakup if he really missed you he would just simply get back with you. But again it seems like he made his mind, so I don't know if he misses you. I know it is difficult for you but don't make mess of things by trying to make him jealous! Guys don't like that and it rarely works, if anything he pushes him further away. So take that lesson and carry it, never ever do such things to make a guy jealous it might backfire on you. I learned that in a very painful way that I ended up regretting.
He was pretty much straightforward with you. I'm not sure how you can fix what he feels is "too different" and him wanting to be single. Now what you can do is try to maintain a good friendship with him and maybe overtime when he changes his mind (which is no guarantee) you will be there. I know it hurts. It's a fresh breakup, but you will be fine. Continue to maintain a friendship with him which is better than losing him completely.
What you can do on your snap chat is just be natural. Stop doing things for his attention as he will probably notice why you are doing certain things. Since he is watching, every once in a while you can throw out a very subtle hint of how you feel. It should be subtle and not frequent.0