Most Helpful Girl
I think she got defensive because she knows you are right.0
Most Helpful Guy
If you want her back then say you are sorry in text and that you were out of line. You sill care for her but you also want what is best for her too. If you keep telling her she is doing something wrong, you will just push her away and she will just try extra hard to prove you wrong and resent you for it.
Say it even if you don't really mean it. If you want to stay friends in the hopes of getting her back.1