Broke up with girlfriend because I was stress from work and the way she's been acting. She said she's depress and decide to on on vacation alone (first vacation ever) without talking to me. She's also distance herself, always at home. I've been asking to see her, if I can come over. She's always have an excuse. My last draw was earlier today I was under stress at work so I was ranting on her via text. I even ask her if I can over early so we can hang out then movie, she said no and we just go straight to the theatre. So I snap telling her that I want it over. That I feel like I'm always fighting for the relationship to work and when do I get my "due". She told me if I was sure and I didn't say nothing. So that was it, she didn't even tried to fight for me. I immediately regret it and ask for it back she Said no that I broke up with her already that i should live it now. I tried to talk to her telling her I'm stress and stuff, she said no and I should live with it now. she's the one and I let her go. I tried to apologize but she don't reply. I feel so lost cos I know I called it off out of spite. She think that it was easy for me just like that to call it off as one of my friend said cos she posted that on her facebook. I really want to marry her build a family with her.
I text her but she never respond or pick up her phone.
What should I do now?
Most Helpful Girl
This ones hard because it is going to be hard to through to her if she's just not responding. One thing that you have to do is find ways to manage or lessen the stress in your life. Snapping and letting the stress affect you like that is not good. You mentioned the way she has been acting also made you do certain things, but how was she acting? Well you cannot force her to respond so this where things get stuck and leaves it hanging up in the air, but there is hope that when you text her she is actually reading them.
I wouldn't bombard her with text, but I would text her and let her know that you want make changes and let her know how much she means to you and that you don't want to lose her. I would try to see if you could get her to just hear you out one last time. Because you actually had plenty of chances where she did respond to you and in those moments it seems like it was snappy. So if you get the chance to talk to her again pour your heart out, apologize, and let her know how you are going to change.1
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Most Helpful Guy
actually i believe it seems lke she's done wid u...
so when u were rantin on her via text? wot were u tellin her? maybe this might've pissed her off...
anyway... u cannot do nothing to change her mind sorry... it's only up to her to change... and she won't do it easily as it seems, since she doesn't even accept yer apology... so better move on0