I was with my Ex-Girlfriend for more or less 2 years. I treated her great and everything was fine with the relationship. During the last couple of months she seemed disinterested to spend time with me, I confronted her about, she broke up with me, said her feelings have changed and within 3 weeks she was with another dude. At this point, I wished her the best and completely exited her life and heaven't heard anything from her for over a year.
Now last month, I surprisingly got an E-Mail from her wanting to catch up with me, I just upfront asked her that what does she wishes to achieve by getting in touch with me now, to which she miserably replied "nothing. Not trying to achieve anything, just kinda wanted to see how you are thats all". I didn't bother replying to this one.
Through her brother, I came to find out that that a couple of weeks prior to her mail to me, she was no longer together with the dude she left me to have a relationship with, who ended it with whom, I don't know, nor do I care. He also mentioned that she's also going out with another dude now and through the pictures it's clear to me that they are a couple now, while her friends are like they look so cute together and all that jazz.
What's with the guys just blindly taking a girl who just came out of a relationship, can she really be in love so fast? Is it an act to make me jealous? Is it a rebound? The whole situation seems more confusing than it really needs to be.
What do you think her motives are at this point?
I have an idea on what's happening behind the scenes, but it's all too confusing to me, it would help me a lot if someone sheds some light on it, thank you for your help in advance.
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She's probably not over you either that she wants to be friends. But honestly you should just stop talking to her all together. It really seems like she's trying to string you along as back up if her other bfs don't work out. She's doing that by keeping you as a friend or attempting to. Seems like your not having it and don't have any interest with that idea. But personally if that was me I'd just block her you don't need someone in your life that's going to act immature like that.1