So I completely stopped talking to this guy. The one in my previous posts. The loser who used me for money told me that he didn't want or need me and didn't want to speak to me. So I honored his wishes. I didn't call him, text, him or contacted him for weeks. I was actually to the point where I can live my life without being upset at him and not want him like I used to. I haven't even dated anyone. I've just been doing me. So out the blue I get a call from a private number and I answered because I wanted to know who was calling me from a private number and why. I should have know it was going to be him. I really forgot about him thats why it never crossed my mind! But he calls me just to tell me he has a girlfriend, and how he loves her and how he "made love" to her and her p***y was better than mine and she has a bigger a** than me. Then when I hung up on him he proceeded to send me text messages about how "he won." My question is, why is he going out of his way to tell me this? I have made NO contact with him ever he told me he didn't want to talk to me anymore and that was three or four weeks ago, I think, I honestly really dont know. I know some people will say to ger a reaction out of me but if you dont want to speak to me then why do you need my reaction? This is going to be my last post about this slimeball ass loser but I just dont get why he's doing this. I'm playing it off, but on the inside it's really pissing me off. Not that he has a "girlfriend" just the fact that he called me on a peaceful night of playing video games just to piss me off. Any real honest answers are appreciated!
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He did it to get a reaction out of you. He seems insecure and that he enjoys putting others down or making it seem like "he won" to feel better about himself. He also wanted to see if he still had control over you. When he told you about this new girl if your emotions were flaring and he could tell that you were mad or sad then it gives him a boost but if you showed no emotion it shows that you don't care and have moved on. It's best to cut contact from now on and don't respond to texts or answer calls from an unknown number0
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