My boyfriend and I been going out for almost 8 months now, we are engaged, we love each other dearly! He is such an amazing lover, so sweet and caring. We are in a long distance relationship right now, We fight and argue a lot! (almost ever time we talk) we mostly fight because we miss each other, and because we can't talk this long distance b.s ! I haven't seen each other in 5 months. Well he have been talking to me about moving in with him to Chicago (where he lives) he wants me too so bad! He also said if I moved in with him his life would be so much better and happier... But I don't know if I should?! I love him so much and I miss him more then I have ever missed anyone. What should I do? Move in with him? No? Maybe...?
by the way am 18 and his 23 and I live in Florida. If that even matters lol.
p.s He wants me to move in with him beginning of January 2010!
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8 Months + Fighting + Engagement = Disaster waiting to happen
If you move in with him now, you're risking your own sanity. I have a gut feeling that the situation would become either physically or emotionally abusive. Regardless of how sweet he is - please refrain for at least another year before making such a hefty effort.
Additionally - this will benefit your relationship (and future marriage) to postpone living with him. You could move close to him, but in your own apartment - that way the long distance thing isn't still happening