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No, @shadyb, it may even be to your Advantage the Second time around, with nursing and nurturing the Beginning of a new Beguine, than could be Better than before.
What is 'Bad,' you could say, is when it is Only a Friends with benefits factor and that's All the Ex would want to Mark an X in his Own... Softie spot and take terrible Advantage.
Good luck and blessings. xx