Being constantly trolled online by my ex friends with benefits and his new girlfriend. what did I ever do to either of them to be followed about and put down? I have ignored them and if I have responded I've never called either names just curtly told them to leave me alone. I found out he has just had a baby with her so don't know why they both continue to do this,. my only crime was I fell in love with him and being hounded and punished as if I've done something bad.. im getting angry and want to lash out and expose this pair but it's against the law and due to my location there isn't really a crime against stalking someone.. so I have to put up having my confidence smashed and im depressed it's getting to point I feel I can't go on anymore. I've no one to talk to about this and don't have many friends to warn them off me.
Advice please.. is there anything such as karma.. they aren't getting bored any time soon it's been months..
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"They say life isn't fair and they are right?"
Yes. The sky is also blue and bread now comes in the conveniently sliced variety.
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Okay, I'm not going to lie- I read this question and I was really shocked to look up and see you're not a teenager.
1) You need to woman up. The only way these crazy b*tches can ruin your confidence is if you let them. I've had people call me all sorts of racist/sexist terms (I live in a predominantly White neighborhood and work in a predominantly male field) and cr@p like that only works if you let it get to you. A$$hats like that talk smack because they're trying to get a rise out of you.
2) If you're motivated enough to fight back, you really need to be more creative about how you're doing it. If it's illegal to do it where you are, change locations temporarily and then do it (or ask someone in a different location to do it for you).
3) Learn how to use the filters on your social media accounts or delete them altogether. Almost all social media has ways to limit who can post on your account (e. g. "Friends Only"). If you're seeing these things they're posting then either A) You're actively looking for their comments, or B) You aren't making full use of the site's ability to limit interactions between parties.
4) If you are genuinely depressed, seek professional help. Depression can ruin your life because it eliminates any/all motivation you have to actually do something practical about your negative situation.0