My ex girlfriend has had a new boyfriend for 5 months now. We didn't text or talk for 3 of those, because I respected her dating. I didn't like it, but I respected her and let it be. Plus I knew there wasn't anything I could do about it. She has been texting me over the past 2 months but still has boyfriend. She has blocked me on fb several times and unblock me a week later. She only started blocking and unblocking me when she started dating this guy. She even deactivated her fb for weeks at a time too. Now last week she blocked me again when I told her I still had feelings for her. She replied with, we are only friends and I haven't led you on. That is the last I have heard from her. She then blocked me shortly after the text. Now this week she unblocks me on fb. Did I do something wrong by telling her how I feel? Or does she still have feeling for me? She shows all the classic signs she still likes me. For example, text me on bday, made sure I was ok during a family event that was several years ago, texts me while she has a boyfriend, asks me how my day was and how I have been. My friends have said, she has definitely led me on with her texts. I have asked her hang out, called her, but the only way she will respond is through text messaging. We have been broken up for 9 months now. Not a bad breakup, right girl, wrong time. I want her back but i know I still have to ride it out with her and this guy. I have always heard rebounds last up to 6 months. She is fall hard in love type of girl too. What do you all think? Not fb friends either. She still hasn't said she has a boyfriend to me. Why wouldn't an ex just say she has a boyfriend to me if she wanted me to go away?
Most Helpful Girl
I think you should just move on and life you life for the time being. she's sending clear signs thats she doesn't want to talk right now. I would just left her come to you when she's ready.0
Most Helpful Guy
Honestly the best thing to do is not answer her. If she doesn't want to meet you, then that is not a good thing. Enjoy your life and work on yourself. Tell yourself you can get other girls. Yes she still cares about you, but it seems like you are around as a backup plan. You are better than that. Get out there and be happy...0