Say if your bf/gf broke up with you and said this:
I don't love you, and I don't want to be with you
I love you but we're not meant to be together and hangs up and won't answer
I know bother are bad but which would at least make moving on a bit better?
Most Helpful Guy
Both are hard to hear but both are definitive. You'll know where you stand and know that you can move on.
The first one sounds like you wouldn't even want to talk to them again based on the "I don't love you" comment. Why would you want someone who doesn't love you?
The second one states how they feel. I know sometimes we want further explanations but it sounds like you wouldn't get too far trying to get them.
Most Helpful Girl
I'd rather someone be honest with their feelings up front, but I don't know depending on the person and wha they meant to me I can get over things and distract myself really easily. But my heart was broken awhile ago I don't know.
I guess number two because it's the most confusing one, I would be very upset in that scenario because I'd find that such a ridiculous excuse... Unless their was another person I mean0