Is it possible for a man to own up to cheating on his girlfriend. I put my boyfriend on the spotlight. I told him if he wanted to see other woman to tell me. I don't want to keep coming back to me if he is with someone else. I think-but its really not enough to accuse him. I am trying to be open with him. he says there is no one else. We don't see each other a lot because of my busy lifestyle sometimes I think its not fair to him. So asked him if he ever feels alone or he thinks I don't love him and decides to cheat just let me know. Am I being 2 straight? Is it possible 4 him to even tell me the truth?
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I like the idea but bad execution. That's equivelant to me sayin "look...imma busy dude. So we gonna f*** or what because I don't wanna waist my time. I could be gittin w/otha hoes. So you gonna f*** me tonight? Lemme know"
I mean...are you even responding to that? No. He's not gonna respond to you either. I understand you don't wanna be f***ed around on...nobody does. That's where you just gotta trust somebody. I had a ex that was completely insecure and always thought I was cheating on her. It was almost like she was sabotaging the relationship. I almost got to the point where I was like, "sh*t, ...if you want me to cheat, I'm just gonna f***in do it". Just so she could say..."I knew you were gonna cheat on me!
Dont be that girl. Trust ya man til he gives you reason not to. Because trust me...theres nuttin more irritating than a guy doin right and bein blamed for always doin wrong.1