So I just recently achieved my mba degree. I own a sales and marketing firm that makes over six figures each year in profit. I can speak four different languages. I am muscular and tall. I can do so many other things as well.
The point is my now ex girlfriend said that she couldn't stand my arrogance. I told her that if she wanted to keep me, she would have to offer more sex and keep up her appearance. The way I figure it, she has a less that 40% chance of finding a man with a bachelo'rs degree in america according to the U. S. department of education.
I have an mba so lets estimate that she now has a 30% chance of finding an educated man. On top of that I earn six figures, which puts my in the 10% of America. That brings the perecentage down to 3%, then we have to add in all of the languages I can speak fluently, so lets say.3% on top of owning my own business, so lets say.03% chance. I am also 6'2 and really muscular. I am also about to get a chin implant to look more manly and I have a full beard, so lets estimate.003% chance of finding another man.
Isn't it fair that I request more from her, if I have all of that to offer? I haven't even gone into my hobbies, like how well I can draw and sing. Since I am so rare, I do want her to be MUCH MORE SEXUAL and I wanted her to at least try slimming down.
I also didn't want to keep paying for dates. I wanted to go dutch because I shouldn't be paying for them. I am not her caregiver.
Am I justified?
- YesVote A
- NoVote B
Most Helpful Girl
There is nothing wrong in being proud of your achievements because they didn't fall into your lap and you obviously had to put in a lot of hard work to be where you are today, but I would say she might have been more turned off by your sense of entitlement, as well as your arrogance. It's not hard to imagine that a woman wouldn't be eager to sexually please her boyfriend if he acted as though he was doing her a favor by being in her life and the least she could do was drop a few dress sizes. That is not a turn on. Every person is capable of being sexual to someone they are attracted to, and for all your 'worth' and 'value' she was simply not that impressed.
So I guess the short answer to your question is yes you are arrogant.0
Most Helpful Guy
I think you're missing the point of a relationship, my friend. A woman rewarding you with more sex for your life achievements is completely out of what a relationship is.
It is good to be proud of your own merits and awards, it is good to keep yourself healthy and hot, but life and love in special are not to be treaten like math or accounting, so you should put away those statistics because they're all like shit when you're thunderstruck by REAL love that may come from you could never predict or expect.
Imho, you have to decide what kind of woman you want on your side. The way you wrote it, it gives us the impression you want a doormat, sex slave, and a worshipper instead of a real woman. Some people seem to like a lifestyle full of girls acting this way, and being cherished for what you have or how big your biceps are is really a hollow empty life that only the wet by tears pillow would know.
I'd suggest you to stop with the numbers and look at the person. If you do not love your current girlfriend enough, do her a favour and break it up with her. Then seek for a woman who could "intimidate" you by who she is, one who have similar "achievements" and have the same drive for sex you have, one who could kick your muscular ass away IF she didn't care about you. That's the challenge.0