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Guys, my boyfriend recently broke up with me. (He's 18 I'm 17) I Want him back. We're also going 2 the same community college w/ same classes. Help?
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My best advice would be to cut your losses and move on.
It may seem hard, but can be easy to do if you allow yourself and not have any mental restrictions.
You just need to forget about him and move on. Start talking and being interested in more and different people. Try and avoid everything that reminds you of him for the time being, but obviously you can't avoid everything all the time. You will need to think of other things and people instead of your ex boyfriend.
Loads of other people say that their ex boyfriend is perfect and whatever, which doesn't help getting over as your making them seem perfect. If you tell yourself someone is perfect, such as your ex or this lover, then eventually you will believe that and will want him and start missing him.
Just like you, you said that he's romantic, you had good communication and were important to one another. But why is it just him that can be that perfect person. You will have this idea that he is perfect which you need to forget when seriously finding not a replacement, but a new good guy.
So, don't compare him to other guys you see, cos if you think a perfect boyfriend is like your ex, then no one but him will fit your description and you won't be able to move on cos you can't. No two guys are the same, if that makes sense.
If you need more help, advice or just want to talk feel free to ask or send me a message
Hope this helps.
actually i believe problem's he thinks kinda lowly about himself as it seems... at least he doesn't wanna string u along as he says, so consider this good. also he considers u da most important person to him keep in mind!
anywy if i was u i'd tell him there's nothing for him to worry, since i'd always support him... but if he cannot understand this...
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