Ever since we've broke up my world has been falling apart. I went through deep depression causing me to pick back up old habits (smoking and drinking). My car started breaking Dow had to pay a lot of money to get it fixed. I have 60 days to move and haven't found a place to live yet, my boss is irritating the crap out of me, I got into a car accident today causing me more car repair costs and possibly high ins premiums, as well as my first ticket citation ever! I can't help but cry because I think to myself wow there was a time I could just call him up and he would be there to encourage me and support me. He always had a way of making me feel better. Just the sound of his voice could take this stress away! I miss him sooo much. It makes me sick because he was the one who left me!
Why does if feel like One thing after another after my breakup?
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It happened to me, too... My live-in boyfriend broke up with me (in the worst possible way: he left for someone else, cheating and lying) and I had an incredible series of unfortunate events happening in my life! I lost my job, I had to move within a month to another state and lost all my friends and life, I got my first tickets (super $$$!! My car was towed and I forgot to pay the fine in time...), I gained weight, I got depressed... to name a few.
Maybe I was just unlucky... But I also realized all this happened because I could not focus on anything else but him and our relationship. I was so much in pain, missed him so much, I could not stop picturing him with the other girl, I could not give an explanation to everything that had happened. I was so distracted. I could not care less of everything I used to love in my life.
Give yourself time. Try not to obsess on him. Talk to family and friends. Force yourself to do things that distract you from ruminating on your past relationship. I know it's hard to rewire our brain and accept that it's over and we are single again, but we have to try!0
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