Long story short she cheated, she begged for a 2nd chance and cheated in a months time... We broke up and he is blowing me up on txts saying she has a problem and wants to fix it. I reply with a ok or cool but then she will ask me can she come over or for me to go to her place and that's when I stop responding... Instead of giving her an answer I figure ignoring her dumb ass would let her know I will not be disrespected. She will then send sad faces... What do you people think?
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i think ignoring her is childish and immature. She did a shit thing but why not just tell her no? Saying no will get the respect, not saying anything suggests you are too scared to say no to her so then she thinks she has some control over you and actually makes you look bad.
I am sorry she did this to you, I really am, but the healthy thing for you is what your instincts are telling you. I think you know you need to let her go. If you dont she will just cheat again. Make her really fight for you because right now you are not breaking it off, she is still your girlfriend so in her mind she's thinking 'I will cheat, he won't break up with me, he hasn't done so yet!' The only way to teach her a lesson is to break it off and make her massively regret it.0