she was so kind to me when that ex left me, stood by my side and i loved her a lot, but i left her to have fun around a sleep around because i thought i was still young, i even though dated another girl and she knew about it. she begged me not to leave her but i insisted, never came back to see her for 2 years although she was always in my heart, she tried to call me some times during those two years but i was cold with her, and then i wanted her back , i said i am sorry and that i love you , she was too scared , kept telling me that she is afraid and that she doenst trust me at all, i insisted that i must see her and she finally agreed, tehe first day i arrive d to country i called her twice she didn't answer so i called my ex and spent the day with her, she called me but i didn't answer, then i met her next day, she was so sad and reminded me of everything i didn to her and told me that she has changed i looked so sad so she backed up and told me that she loves me and that she needs to think, the next day she called me and asked me to go out and not to talk about anything in the past. i told her i am shocked from what she said yesterday and how she said no, so she texted me again that she loves me but that she is just scared because i left her before and that she is scared i will be bac to not answering her or leave her for other girl again, i didn't reply to that text, and i called me ex again and spent another day with her, this girl found out and got so angry , i kept calling her till she agreed to see me, she found out i met my ex twice , she got so hurt, but she still met me although she looked so sad and uncomfortable with me, she asked me to see the texts and message between me and my ex i couldnt because i knew she would feel worse, she cried in the street and said "show me", i didn't show her , so she took a taxi and left, i again kept calling her o she agreed to meet me, after ward she said she can't trust me and refused to meet me again
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You pretty much messed up that relationship. For girls, it is fine if you still meet your ex, but at least (that is, if you like her) be honest with her and let her know that you are doing something with your ex even though she has been ignoring you. Then you come clean and she knows that she can trust you, also if it hurts her that you are visiting your ex. Anyway, there are other things you should consider too, if you really want this to work. First think why you really want to be with her, make a list. Afterwards, you can read her the list or tell her in a nice way, why you want her, why she is the one for you and that you only care for her. BUT be careful that you do not add things, which do not come from the heart because she will find out eventually.
My opinion: Just be honest and let her calm down, it's the best you can do at this moment in time.0