I've been dating a girl I really like for a few weeks. All was going swimmingly until last week she just wanted to be friends. I accepted the situation as any man should but asked her why. She only replied that she needed to be alone and then started crying. I never got a solid reason from her. It seems weird to me in that I had literally given her the sun and moon and she drops me like a stone. It wasn't a problem in the bedroom either because we were very compatible and had great fun. I just feel somewhat shut out and I'll never know why.
Any guys out there that have had similar break-ups?
Girls, no reason for break-up?
What Girls Said 2
There could be deep down secrets about this special girl who you would have given your life on a platter for here, dear, that she could not explain to you. And with this being said, with only a cry, not much hymning and hawing, she decided it Best... For Break-up.
She may have been in a past relationship where it had ended up badly and she decided she didn't want to handle One at this time. She probably had a change of heart, however, not from the start, but being with you, all cozy and all, the writing on the wall and all, points to that she grew cold duck feet and wandered aimlessly back in her Secure Murky waters.
Go slow with her for now. Go slow with her flow. Nurse and nurture a nice friendship for awhile. It may have even been going so fast at first that your overwhelming kindness of being this Prince Charming took her by surprise, and nearly made her fall off her white horse that you both were riding on so soon.
Give her time and space. With a little patience and another chance, you both may one day head to romance.
Good luck. xx1
Lots of people do that.0
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