my girlfriend is she so jealous of this ex because she was the one who dumped me, she has warned me before not to hurt her because of that ex, yet i called this ex and i met her, my girlfriend called me 2 times this day and i didn't answe her because i was with my ex, one day later i called this ex and hanged out with her, this time i checked on my girlfriend twice if she is at work, she said yes, do you want me to come to you and hang out with you?, i said no i am with dad , but i was with the ex , i was afraid to get caught, Now my girlfriend found out all that from a mutual friend between her and the ex, i said sorry and that it was over, she agreed to meet me although she was feeling ver bad towards me, a week later she asked to see my call log and my whatsapp to check if i am still talking to my ex, i couldnt show her anything , she kept crying, i was so sad but i knew if she saw them she would be even sader, she cried in the street, took a taxi and left me , she is devastaed, she says i totally broke her trust , and it is hard for her to be with me again. i said i have never felt the same way i feel for her for my ex, and that i love her not my ex , and that i am sorry , and that i want us to get engaged , but she is finding it too hard to be with me. what would you do if you were her? would you walk away that day and take a taxi?
ps : i have once left her for a fling before, she took me back because she loved me , and because i said i was sorry, but since then she can't trust me 100% , and now i did this ex thing
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I would do the same thing because what you did was just rude. Put yourself in her position, I know you would not be okay with her talking to her ex. She probably thinks you are still into her, and you just might be, and if not then that is what your actions are indicating. She took you back after a fling? I'm sorry but you really might be confused, a guy that loves his woman doesn't cheat on her. A boy makes his girl jealous of other women, but a MAN makes other women jealous of his woman. Reconsider all you have done, you messed up big time and it is up to you to gain back her trust, leave all your porn (if you're into that), stop texting other girls, stop all communications with your ex, exes, and don't ever do it again. Apologize like a mad man and cry on your knees and beg her for forgiveness... Also don't deny her your phone that's so fishy. In all honesty she deserves better and you know so, leave her or make your promise and be a good man for her, if you love her and you will change, and NOT fall back into bad habits again apologize and ask her to marry you in a few months. If you know you can't, spare her and leave her because trust, loyalty, and communication are key in a relationship.
This happened once with my fiance and I except that this was just a friend, and nothing more but it bothered me and after the third time i told him to stop talking to her he did, and I told him I'd leave him if he didn't stop and he did. he told her I was his priority and they stopped talking because he loves me and he didn't want to lose me. You hurt really bad and you know so, and I'm just sorry to hear all of this happened. Think about what I said and I hope i helped.1