I have a close friend and we've had on and off feelings for each other for the past 5 years. Right after he accepts my friend request he changes his status with his "open relationship" girlfriend (that I've known about) to "in a relationship". I'm guessing it means it's official now? Honestly it made a little jealous. Now I want to be in a relationship with someone just so I don't have to feel left out. Am I just paranoid? Do you think he would get jealous if I got a boyfriend?
It sounds horrible I want a relationship just to p*ss him off but I feel so empty if he is happily with his girlfriend and I'm just watching.
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Don't worry about him - this is part of the "composure" moment, where you wish him the best and don't look back (meaning don't go back to him).
Find yourself a guy, but when your ready and willing. If you pursue a relationship for the wrong reasosn, then it'll fail - leaving you with even more of a void of lonely feelings (like what you feel now, just worse).