Most Helpful Girl
It's fine to want a luxurious lifestyle but what does she contribute? Does she work? Does she save? Or does she expect you to make that luxurious lifestyle happen while she just waits.
There are women who expect to be taken care of (financially), and there are men who want to do just that. There is nothing wrong with that as long as both people in a relationship agree. I, for one, would not want or expect my partner to work his ass off, and I would especially not whine that he should make a bigger effort so I can have a better life. So I guess you two are simply incompatible in this one aspect, and it's a pretty big aspect.
Regardless of all that though and what she expects, I find it pretty out of order to freak out at you for not getting a job. I agree she should be supportive as it's hard enough to find a new/good job and nobody needs their partner to harass them about it and make them feel worse.3
Most Helpful Guy
Well I would say you should give it a deep thought if you consider leaving her, I know she is not trying to be supportive or understanding towards you, there is nothing wrong in wanting a luxurious lifestyle but she must try to understand the reality as well and not everyone is born rich, even if her desire for such a lifestyle is practical and achievable and you can achieve it but she must it will take time for that to happen, which I don't think she is understanding.
Have you tried to talk to her about this? have you told her it makes you uncomfortable and it hurts you as well?
Sit down and have a discussion with her before coming to any conclusions0