Most Helpful Girl
Tell her either face to face, or whatever is Good for you here, dear, that you are Not ready for a Real Relationship, and that you are Not 'Good for her' and she should move on to Someone who is better all way round.
I have to Admit that it does my heart Good to see an honest John say that he wants more than 'Physical.'
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Most Helpful Guy
1. You tell him in person.
2. If you are afraid that he will react crazy, have him meet you for lunch somewhere public.
3. Do it during the day because more crazy stuff happens at night.
4. Tell a good friend what you are doing and promise to report to them as soon as it is done.
5. Be very matter of fact about your reasons. Don't sound like you are not sure of your decision. But don't be mean to him, either.
6. Don't state anything that gives him any reason to think that there is any hope.
7. Don't feel that you must convince him that you have a good reason.
8. Don't try to soften the blow by telling him that maybe you can remain friends.
9. Don't use lame lines like, "You're a great guy and you'll meet somebody else who will be better for you." Guys get angry when they hear that stuff.
10. Tell him that you thought about it long enough to know that you will not change your mind.
11. Ask him to not contact you anymore and immediately delete him from your social media.
12. Do not respond if he tries to contact you afterwards.
13. For a few weeks afterwards, avoid going to places where you might encounter him.
14. Ask yourself why this relationship didn't work and don't minimize your role in the reasons. You want to learn from this so that you don't repeat the mistake.
15. Make plans to keep yourself busy and distracted for a few days afterwards.
16. Do not, under any circumstances, let loneliness or guilt interfere with the breakup. After the breakup, if you call or text him, you have reset the clock and it will be even more difficult to breakup the next time.
17. If you feel any desire to run back to him, have a friend who you can call who will talk you out of it.
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