Every weekend, I cooked for him. He said that no other woman has done that for him. I like to give massages, which he enjoyed as well. I did it when he was sore. He didn't have to ask, I just did it when I noticed he was tense. I'd get oil, sit on his back, and massage his back to relieve some stress. Oday when he came home, his feet were sore from standing up all day. I took his shoe off, rubbed his feet and told him "Why don't you relax the rest of the day, if you need anything I'll get it for you". For his birthday, I bought him a cake and we played this game where we would put country names in a hat and what ever country he picked I would make a dish from that country. so for his birthday we had a foriegn dinner and I sung happy birthday to him. He said that he hadn't had his birthday celebrated in years and it had just become another day to him. So I treated him well, but he had temper problems and was emotionally abusive, and also didn't show much affection towards me which made me feel bad. He would go into random emotional fits, and insult me. He would also talk sexually online with girls from pornsites. So when I got upset, he tried to defend it and get angry at me for being upset about what he did. If we argued, the argument was alwasy either over a woman, or me bringing up that it hurt me that he didn't display much affection, and was said hurtful things to me. When he moved to another state, two days into our long distance relationship, he started crushing on another woman and wanted to be with her, he knew nothing about her except that she was pretty. I was prepared to stay loyal to him until he came back, I even lost a lot of guy friends and only hung out with girls. I was heart broken and we got into a nasty fight on facebook over this. I told him I hated him, and I really don't.
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What you described isn't about you. The question you asked isn't accurate. The question should be something like, why do guys get too comfortable and feel that throwing a good girl away is acceptable? Slight variation from yours, but I added a critical piece that you might have overlooked. The same question is asked by guys, why won't girls date good guys? But for similar reasons, it is the same. Guys who have a good girl get comfortable... too comfortable leaving them in a state of mental weakness. When you first date someone, you want to be sharp so you don't slip up and say something stupid or embarrassing. The same is for guys. But as you both get closer and more use to each other, one can't help but get bored of each other. It's sad, but for the same reasons that girls don't want a good guy is that they don't lit the chimney, it is the same for guys. Remember, that in cases of Long Distance Relationships, lots of people let go, and it seems like he has been letting go for a while now. I want to clarify that this isn't your fault and there isn't anything you could have done to prevent it. As BertMacklinFBI said, not all guys are like that and I highly encourage you to date someone who will value your efforts and loyalty. That should by cherished and not so easily thrown away. It happens to us because we are human and not perfect. But don't worry, there will be a guy who will be willing to do everything he can to keep you.1
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Don't caste your pearls to swine.
If you toss a beautiful expensive diamond ring on a pig farm, do you think the pigs are gonna treat the ring with the respect it truly deserves? No because they are pigs and they don't know better.
Your last guy was a pig like that too. You will find the right guy for you.0