he said leave me alone, and then i asked him we are broke up? but he said no just stop sending notification. I dont wanna break up but probably he get more upset if i text him now. I don't know how long should i leave him alone and I don't know why he dont say we are break up.
and i know im English is so bad. coz i just came America in 2 years ago. i know that is just excuse but i really dont know how American people love expression and dont know what they say when they want break up.
Most Helpful Guy
You need to give him time, I can't say how long but non-stop messaging can come off as pestering. Hence leave some gap, in days or say at least 2 weeks before you reach out to him again, or let him reach out to you.
Most Helpful Girl
Give him His own space here, dear, and if you 'Leave me alone,' he will come around on his own free will when he is ready, your steady eddy.
The more you 'Send me notifications,' the Less luck you will have in getting him to come around. He needs time to do his own soul searching and once he does come Back, sit down and have a long Chat so you both can get on the same 'Rage page.'
If he is Not hymning nor hawing about 'We are break up,' then he is just taking a 'Break' from you for now.
Good luck. xx