Me and my girlfriend argued today. When I argue I want to let my girlfriend see my point of view while still considering hers. She's like a horse with blinders on. One track mindset.
When I saw that the argument wasn't going anywhere I tried to leave. She decided to block the door and not let me leave. I told her to move in a really angry tone. She said "NO!" And continued her rage filled banter.
I grabbed her arm and tried to move her aside unsuccessfully. So then I grabbed her feet and slid her forward until her butt layed on the floor and pulled her away from the door.
Now she's texting me at work on how abusive I am and says that I left her a bruise from when I tried to pull her from the door. Why didn't she see that my whole butt slide manuver was to get her away from the door without hurting her?
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I think you both need to learn how to have healthy fights. There's nothing wrong with arguing with your partner occasionally, but to do it in this manner is definitely not what it should be like. I think the question "who is abusive" is pretty irrelevant. I mean you're basically arguing who's to blame instead of realising that you need to work on things.1