- Dump him
- Stay together and see if it gets better
Most Helpful Guy
I don't really see the effort his putting out in his end to try and make it work; maybe it'll be better to break up with him and find someone you do deserve or someone that makes you more happy. It seems like this relationship is only dragging you down and since there's hardly any contact, communications (there are some, but like you said he takes such damn long time to respond and it's going down hill fast), and so forth. Don't waste any more time with him, find someone closer and someone who's available for you. Good luck and I hope you find what it is you're looking for
Most Helpful Girl
LDR, although t me this One is a stone's throw, compared to the Marriage I am in with having a husband out in Egypt, whom I see when I see, is probably the Hardest of Any relationships to Have and to Uphold. It takes two special people to make the effort to have the patience and Take the time to be in this relationship and if only One is putting all of his or her love into it, then it will go dead in the water like a dead duck.
He is making lame duck excuses and may want to breakup but on the other hand, is afraid to make the first move because he may feel he could lose you forever. He has his days when he wants you and in another Instance, forgets you and with reading the writing on the wall and all, could very well be Talking to Others online, putting you too on his pay no mind list.
I feel it isn't fair to you with the way he is feeling, putting your poor heart through this. You are wasting your own time down this almost loveless line, and perhaps First, I could suggest a Break to see if this might help a bit.
By taking this Break, it will give you both some space to see where things are going next. it's a baby step in some direction to guide you in the Right direction and to decide if staying together to make a concerted effort to get on the same page and make this work is best for you both Or... To just throw in the towel and Break it off so you both can be on your merry way.
Good luck. xx