Most Helpful Guy
Albert Einstein had a child out of wedlock, a failed first marriage, and then a second marriage to his cousin. Even brilliant people make bonehead mistakes.
1. Have you learned every lesson that you can from this experience?
2. Do you know what to do so that you won't make the same mistake again?
3. Do you have yourself over this guy and in no danger of giving into a moment of weakness and running back to the master of your personal disaster?
If so, you have done everything that you can do. Tell yourself that you are human and therefore expected to frequently make mistakes but you are learning from your mistakes and that is as efficient as a human can conduct himself or herself.
Most Helpful Girl
It's all about the journey to finding inner peace. Work on accepting that you are worthy of love and happiness, and you are more than those men who took you for granted and did you wrong. None of them define you, so don't let their poor choices affect your self esteem. Bc you know good and well that they are out and about not letting you affect them and how they go about your life.