I met this guy on chat, i thought he was 27 and he came out to be 37. I did not knew he was 37. by the way. We dated through chat for 1week, since i had trust issues. The thing was that he asked me for nudes, and since i was not able to send that i had to cut him off. But then, again he promise me marriage and everything. But we never made it. Through 1 week again i was a little suspicious and i did some research thanks to his phone number i found his profile in fb. And he has 2 kids and a wife! I was pissed off and I made him to apologize to me, n he said he was working on a divorce. Then, i texted him again and he sent me a video where he was materbating. He said that i turn him on. So we started flirting again yet i fell horrible since he is married. So i trusted him again and he ask me for nudes and i only sent him my boobs he wanted me to put my face in it but i didn't want to he also wanted me to show myself naked which i didn't want to and he said that i always lie and that he didn't want to continue fighting with me for it. So i fight him because he just made me feel like the only important thing he wanted was the nudes. So i thought well if he was not truthful to me in the beginning about him being marry what else can i expect. So, when he was always asking me about nudes i thought this is not a healthy relationship so, what i did i told him that we should stop thus because i just can't do nudes. Accept talking to me only without nudes. So he just said i want nudes i want ur boobs i want ur butt i want u! So i just clicked on him. But, i can't seem to stop thinking about him, its shameful that i still think about him knowing he is with his wife n kids. He says he lives in separate rooms um i dont believe that...
Most Helpful Guy
This guy is obviousley using you. First, if any one asks you for nudes, cut them off especially after only one week. They don't care about you they care about sex. I'm sorry but you can and need to do better then this guy. If they want nudes they only want sex. If he says he loved you in a weeks time, he is playing you, trying to manipulate you into doing what he wants, which by extention means he is only out for himself and in this situation that means sexual gratification. You deserve more. Don't talk to this guy or any guy who has similar behavior.1
Most Helpful Girl
How old are you?
Sometimes a part of me really hopes that posts like yours aren't real, but I know these things happen. Unfortunately.
He is using you. Whether he is a pervert who just wants to get off or someone who will eventually use your nudes to blackmail you (you wouldn't be the first young girl to fall for that sadly), we don't know that yet. What we do know is he is not a decent man and does not have serious or good intentions. First of all, he lied to you, about his age, his married status, his kids (god knows what else). Second of all, he is asking you for nudes. A guy who cares about getting to know a girl and wants to establish a serious relationship with her does not ask for nudes, he also does not send her videos of himself wanking. Also, don't you find it suspicious he insists on having your face in the photos?
Stop talking to this guy immediately. Block him. Now. Depending on your age (I ask because often people's age on here isn't correct) you might consider telling someone about this whole thing.3