He messed up everything we had, now it's broken. But we never actually had a real conversation, a real ending. I wrote him a letter exposing everything he made me feel and saying that I am not moving on with my life, but I just needed to put things on paper in order to finish this chapter, for good. Good or bad idea sending him this? I don't know if he deserves this "attention" but at the same time I need to know that he realizes all he has done to me.
Is it good or bad idea to send a letter to my ex in order to finish the chapter?
What Guys Said 1
If you have things on your chest get it out, but don't expect a response.0
What Girls Said 1
It could be a great idea as long as you don't have any expectations. Something like this can be handled by the other person in so many different ways, and you need to be prepared for them. He may not respond with an apology suddenly realizing everything he had done wrong. Heck he may not even respond to the letter or you at all. He could get defensive and lash back pointing out all of your flaws in the relationship (trust me... They are there... No one is perfect and no beak up is 100% one person's fault). You could open the flood gate of communication and he could try his hardest to win you back. Who knows.
As long as you're in the correct mental state and place to handle any possible reaction, and you've set clear boundaries for yourself that you plan to stick to... Send the letter. If not it may not be the best idea.0
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