My ex and I broke up 2 months ago. I was having a bit of a self esteem issue and would make him validate that he really did love me. Well enough was enough and it hurt him too much so he broke up with me. Since then I've worked on the area of concern. We are beginning our masters at the same school. We've been texting and so far this has what's been said, him "He wants to make sure I really am doing better and have the self esteem I deserve before even considering having a relationship again and it's not a guarantee that we would date in the future. " He said he'd really like to be friends and once we're moved and settled in we can grab coffee. I do want to try again. I do want to give us another chance. I think if love was there then it's worth it. What do you think?
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The problem here is your going into this with the intent to get him back. That doesn't prove your better, it proves you are pretending. Be his friend, and actually be his friend, not just pretend while trying to get him to take you back. If you can handle being friends after a time then you can see if things can move from there.1