I thought we were back together then about 3 weeks ago he said he needed to talk and then texted me "I think I'm going to have to find myself again" and I was upset because he came back into my life after walking away. He slowly got me to trust him again then he tells me that and I cried and told him that if he didn't won't me anymore to say so and he said I already want you. Then for the next 2 weeks he became more distant. The last time I talked to him was 11 days ago and everything seemed fine but he was taking longer to reply to texts and I texted him if he was mad at me and he texts me 5 hours later at 2 am saying why you think that but I didn't reply so he called me and we texted until 4am and everything was good. Also earlier that day he said he still loves me and misses me. But I haven't heard from him since, I did text him 2 days ago but he never replied so now he is ignoring me. I'm just going to move on with my life but it still hurts because he didn't even say anything to me.
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This One has Said Plenty to me here, dear, and that Is: He doesn't want to be hooked at the hip anymore in a Real Relationship.
This is Reason of the season with being hot and cold, giving you lame duck excuses because he is getting cold duck feet everytime he pushes a button that he is getting closer to your heart, then has a change of Heart because he is thinking of the Commitment that he once shared with you as two birds of a feather. He is Not Ready nor Raring for it right now.
He wants his cake and Eat it Too with being with you but not having to have you all of the time as a Main dish, only when it is convenient for you to Continue your duties to Serve him well. He feels he can come and go and that you will always be there when he is Missing the Kissing.
This what I call a "Full circle problem pattern" where it Continues and comes back to the same softie spot, where nothing else is going forward, just whatever he Says... Goes.
Move on sweetie, he will never change. He is a fickle pickle who isn't koshore for sure and will only Break your heart into many different pieces and never be there for you when the chips are down.
Good luck. xx0