My ex girlfriend broke up with me 2,5 weeks ago. 1 week ago we said goodbye to each other. She is going out, having the time of her life. Telling people that she hates me, that she doesn't want to be in contact with me. that she's glad I'm out of her life and that the breakup isn't hard for her at all. She's happy she broke up with me. She now is already seeing someone else. I don't know what to think. Does she hates me, doesn't the breakup make her feel sad? She's only 17 and it's really weird for me to hear all those things. I've seen in with my own eyes that she's seeing someone else. I don't want her back so don't tell me to move on haha. I just wanna know what she's doing and thinking.
Been together for 1,5 years, and now it looks like our relationship didn't mean anything to her.
Most Helpful Girl
I really dont know, I've been in your shoes when my ex jumped into another relationship after he dumped me and worst yet got engaged to the girl within 3 months and only knowing her existance for 5 months. They are now happily married. Wtf. I thought it was a rebound? Is it a rebound in your situation?0
Most Helpful Guy
It's simple here, for as you anyway... you feel like what connection to two had meant nothing. Seeing as on the outside looking in, she moved on without going through he motions of a usual couple would after a break up. clearly it's hit you hard, because your relationship meant a lot to you of course. But seeing her with another guy so soon, and "happy" will make you feel horrible and like things between you two meant absolutely nothing. Here's the thing though, there's no real way to tell how she "really feels" mate. Her outside actions may not reflect at all how she's taking things inside. These may be distractions, her being with someone else and doing things to get past what happened with you while not giving herself time to be sad an sorry. It's nasty business mate, crying and wallowing in what, why's, and How's about breakups. To give you some hope, people that usually need to say "I hate you" once knew love and got betrayed somewhere in there minds to have now turned it to hate. Her telling people is a small indicator that u meant something maybe. What comes next is hard to hear & not something you wanna hear, believe I know... but moving on is what would help you not to be stuck on what she's doing right now & why. And will help you begin to focus on you. I'd wager you want her back, but are trying to convince us and yourself you don't (just my opinion nothing more lol). Go live mate, try not to worry with what she's doing, easier said than done but in time hopefully it will get easier for you. Gl on your sitch:)0
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