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Well, from what I've read now, I say it doesn't sound like completely your fault. Why did she say "it's not like we'll last" or "I feel bad for the guy who knocks me up", or "we'll eventually have to end cuz i don't do long distance relationships", why would she say these things? We're u guys just temporarily dating?
Also, the red flag I read was that u always tried to make her happy & be there for her but was she there for you as much u were there for her? It sounds like you invested your time, heart & energy into a girl, who made u feel constantly like ur relationship wouldn't last & gave u doubts about the relationship through her comments, so it made u insecure where u felt like u had to do whatever to make her happy. I'm not sure if this is correct, so forgive me if I'm wrong but I'm just trying to understand the situation. Or do u think maybe you came into the relationship kind of insecure already & maybe that caused the relationship to go down hill? Not trying to be mean or anything, just asking.
I mean I see that maybe the trust issues could have played a part but i think she played apart too cuz she obviously made u feel like your guys relationship was unstable. Did she say why she felt your guys relationship wasn't going to last? Also, im not sure why she wouldn't take u back Maybe its due to your trust issues or it could be something else or could just be her & not u.
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