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... She says i was pushy, clingy and needy when she broke it off...
It appears, @JT3976X, you have a lot of changing to do to Change your silly stripes that are Frustrating and Irritating your Now Ex with here, dear.
It's never too late to transform for a mate and let her see another side to you that she has never seen before.
You need to First take your finger off the button so much because you are pushing a few of hers and blowing up her phone with these 'Clingy, Needy' Sweetie messages that are bugging her on her own end. This has to End right now.
Give her a break, some space and time for you Both to cool down and let everything settle itself.
When the dust does settle, go see her to let her believe it is for your 'Fishing pole.' This will give you a chance to try and drum up the romance and Fish around in her heart some, along with giving her a Huge apology for Not to 'See her for my birthday.'
Talk things out and see what compromise you both can come up with. It doesn't have to necessarily mean it has to end where there is plenty of other fish in the sea, but you do have to show her, even if it means starting from scratch, that you can change, and let Nature do its own Rearranging from there.
Every dog has its day and let's hope you get yours Back.
Good luck. xx