When I first met her, she was shy. But now she's more comfortable with me; and apparently enjoys hanging out with me because she always says she should hang out more. But at the same time, I've seen numerous guys ask her out, and she just plainly tells them 'no'.
What will it take for her to regain trust in guys and be confident again? How can I be the guy that she wants to go out with seriously
Most Helpful Girl
she needs to recover on her own. all you can do is try to make her comfortable.
Most Helpful Guy
Dating chicks who have been abused is a really, really rough road. Rule #1: Don't EVER think you can fix them with your behavior. Trauma needs to be addressed by professionals. It will take more than a nice, sensitive guy to address this. Because of her past abuse, she may actually end up abusing you... thinking you're weak... especially if she gravitates towards rough guys.