She continues to hide behind them and now she is finding ways to blame me
- Yes break up with her
- No don't break up with her
Most Helpful Girl
Before Jumping the gun with this Smoking gun of a 'Girlfriend' here, dear, she and You Need to get together on the Almighty page and come to some sort of Compromise in your relationship.
She has to Learn that if she wants and Intends to hold down any life and future with you, that she can't just hide behind her family's pants and skirts and Dad's... Big Shirks as well.
If you do not put this to bed, you and your soul mate will never have a 'Life' Nor a 'Future.' It will always be a Family Affair and it's Fair that the Hatfields and the McCoys Intervene when there is a Problem in Paradise.
It's good she loves her blessed family and all, but the writing on the wall is saying that even though the Family that Prays together, Stays together but this is One Daddy Dearest who needs to be put in his place and told that there is no Unity now, just a house that is nearly Divided instead.
This is your roof and your nest too with your sweetie tweetie. Tell her to either handle things like a True mate with you Alone and stop pointing fingers at you, or you will fly the coop until the other Chirpy birds go back down south.
Dad is being unfair and by him Enabling his little chick under his fatherly wing, she feels she can Squawk all she wants.
Andy, there is a new sheriff in town, and I would let everyone know it.
Good luck. xx