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- aficionadoMaster mho 29%
Maybe that's just your mind's way of appreciating and reminding you of how hard he had to work to 'win you over'.
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- aficionadoMaster
Well... if you actually 'want' him back, and he does too, neither of you need to put in too much efforts again. It all depends on who dumped whom.
- Asker
We'll I know he still has feelings for me but he's not giving me a chance, it really doesn't make sense why he wouldn't
- aficionadoMaster
If it was you who dumped him, he is unlikely to give you a chance because he probably feels that after all he did to win you, you promptly dumped him.
- aficionadoMaster
Try to sit down and have a serious talk with him. Get things sorted out. It's certainly easier, usually, to reignite old feelings than starting new feelings from scratch.
- Asker
We'll I have asked him before I'd he wanted to get back together after I apologized for everything I could have done and he said "I don't want to get back together now". What Could THAT statement mean? I took it as not now but later down the road.
- aficionadoMaster
That means, he probably needs time to heal from the emotional wounds caused by the breakup, until he is ready to accept you again.
- aficionadoMaster
Can't say for sure. Just set a deadline. If you don't get an answer from him by then, you need to move on.
- Asker
We'll what does that phase sound like to you besides him healing? I mean why would he put the now at the end of it?
- aficionadoMaster
That means he is considering a reconciliation with you at some point, but he's not sure about it right now.
- Asker
It's been months and he's still not sure. Why us he taking so long?
Is that why he's ignoring me at times? - Asker
If he's going to come back to me it hasn't been too long. I love him and if he's the one I should be able to wait right?
- aficionadoMaster
Yes, but there should be a limit for waiting as well. You can't wait indefinitely. That's not practical. And whether he loves you or not... you can't be sure unless he TELLS you.
- Asker
Doesn't THAT Mean He Has Feelings For Me. I mean we act like a couple every time I see him?
Most Helpful Girl
- Anonymous
Sounds like thinking of all the good and romace in the begginging. And not thinking about the reasons it didn't work out. It's not a bad thing to reminice and to think about the things that worked and the things that didn't work.
After sometime thought this becomes unhealthy if you should be moving on. So try to limit these thoughts as much as possible. I know it's easier said than done.
I was broekn up from a 2 and half year relationship I was 100% in. Just a few weeks ago. Try to focus on you now and having fun :)00|00|0
Right :( but I don't know what that means now? Like is it meaning I need to work that hard to get him back?